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Everyone has a friend or good acquaintance who at first glance you didn’t really like. But when you better know the person, then everything turned out not so bad.

In fact, we only have a few seconds to form an opinion about someone or to impress someone. Therefore, everything is important: from your name to the smell of your sweat.

Below are scientific discoveries about what your features instantly affect the person’s impression of you:

1. Upload too many photos on social networks.

If you are one of those who post photos of every step you take to the network, then it's time to review this moment. A 2013 study shows that this can affect your relationship in real life. For example, one girlfriend may be jealous that you are posting too many selfies with another girlfriend, and so on. You always need to think about how other people will take these pictures.

2. Too many or too few friends on the social network.

When participants in one experiment were asked to rate the pages of strangers, more likes received accounts with the number of friends of about 300. More or less reduced the attractiveness of the person’s page.

Why? Those with too many online friends seem fixated on the Internet, and are more desperate than popular. And those with too few seem too closed and unsociable.

3. Talk online about something too personal.

In general, people get closer and like each other more when they share revelations. But telling everyone about it all over the Internet is too much.

4. Ask questions without talking about yourself.

If we talk about revelations, then they must be mutual. People like it when you are interested in them and ask questions. But if at the same time you are not telling anything about yourself - this is repulsive.

5. Spread too close a selfie.

Research shows that people don't like it when your personal photo is taken at close range. The optimal distance between you and the camera is at least 135 cm.

6. Hide your emotions.

People feel fake emotions, or when you hold them back. And who wants to communicate closely with a person who does not show himself real?

7. Behave too politely.

It seems logical that when you behave politely, you have people to yourself. But no. If you are overly compliant and courteous, this alarms others. People may not believe in your sincerity or believe that they will not look so good against you.

8. Bragging under the guise of self-criticism.

Some people like to talk to themselves - self-criticism - but from the outside it is more like boasting. For example, when an employer asks you about your main shortcoming, your answer - a perfectionist or a workaholic - is actually not a shortcoming, and you know how this should affect the employer.

9. Too nervous.

Studies show that the smell of your sweat when you are nervous subconsciously affects other people's judgment of you (Yes, during the experiment, participants were given the opportunity to smell different types of sweat - generated during training and in stressful situations).

10. Do not smile.

A smile really helps to draw a person to yourself.

11. Show your dislike.

When you show a person that you like him, it is more likely that he will like you. And if you show your dislike for him, then he obviously will not be inclined to you, as well as other people who look at you from the side.

12. Have a hard-to-pronounce name.

Yes, this is unfair, but true. Scientists' experiments prove that people value better those whose name is easier to pronounce - all other things being equal.

13. Use the name of a famous person in a conversation.

During the experiment, scientists observed how a person’s impression is affected by the mention of a celebrity’s name in a conversation. For example, if you say that some star lives next door to you, or that it is your close friend. It turns out that turns people away from you. From the outside, it seems to be manipulation and boasting.

Trivia disgusting men

Of course, in all men, the most persistent aversion is caused by any vital products of the body. Let's think that he can survive, and that - under no circumstances.

It is also worth noting that all the hygiene actions that he requires from you - he himself can ignore what often happens. Of course, you can know and see that his mother or sister do not adhere to his cleanliness standards too. But you must. Especially if the guy is really dear to you.

When you don’t know whether or not to do something, ask if I could have done it with an absolutely stranger, in the presence of my first love or some childhood idol.

The worst thing that can happen is when he finds your hair in food. Of course, you can argue that it can’t be that he never, while eating his mother’s cooked food or in food service, find his hair in food.

Mom is sacred for men, we won’t even discuss it. Eating in a public catering, he is ready for the fact that sooner or later he will find hair there. Here he can replace the dish, write an unflattering review in the complaints book, or he can just take it out and continue eating as if nothing had happened.

It’s another matter with you, it’s rare that a guy will not take advantage of this situation in order not to cause a grand scandal. So you can not put on an apron, but be kind, when you cook. Of course, first of all, our article is for those who are just starting to live together, who may not even read a long family experience, you have gone through a lot with your spouse, he will forgive you and not that.

Hair in the bathroom

What man is not disgusted to pull your hair out of the bathroom. Everyone remembers the old joke that the girl’s long hair is not only beautiful, but also a full bathroom of hair. Especially when you consider that when he begins to stretch your hair, he will pull out a lot of things that have nothing to do with you.

Soap hair

That's just terrible. Of course, this short hair can be quite the hair from your bangs. But the guy will not even think about it, he will immediately think something else and instantly throw this soap into the urn.

Note that the kitchen and the bathroom are the worst places to find your hair. If he sees a pair of hair falling out on his bed, he will not have any unpleasant reaction, of course, if he sleeps on this bed only with you.

It is also worth noting that very often men have a desire to pat the girl on the head, or smell her hair, or just kiss them. It will be embarrassing for you and him, if you didn’t have time to wash your hair and your head is very oily.

Female body hair

Let's talk about body hair. Let's start with the worst, hairy armpits. Of course, many feminists and stars of "show business" imitating them, for example, Madonna, urge women not to shave their armpits. But this always causes a storm of indignation; society has long since become accustomed to this.

Remember how all the world media circled the photos of Lourdes, daughter of the Madonna, who was walking on the beach with hairy armpits. It looks disgusting in guys too. Everyone who has already watched the remake of the series “Rescue Malibu” could not help but notice how Zach Effron, the sex symbol of the 2000s, flaunted the entire film with unshaven armpits.

It should be remembered that the hair also contributes to the fact that bacteria multiply more actively, and how many times a day you would not take a shower and how actively you would not use a deodorant, a guy can hardly survive this smell.

Leg hair

Oddly enough, the guy will normally survive if you do not have time to shave his legs on time. If such an embarrassment happened, you can tell him that you want to try removing hair with wax, for this you just need to grow a couple of millimeters.

Bikini hair

Of course, many men over 40 normally perceive the absence of hair removal in the bikini area, as was his first partner there, for example. But you remember that everything that a man sees during his first sexual experience, he considers normal.

But, even if you do not have deep hair removal in the bikini area, you understand that there should be no hair outside the panties. Also, another point that is not customary to talk about, especially if you wear a thong, you must make sure that you also do not have a single hair in the back.

Hair in the most unusual places

Nose hair and hair around the nipples. The media does not cover this topic, and many men do not even suspect that they grow there. Delete them regularly - and he will continue to be in happy ignorance.
Overgrown nose bridge and hair from moles. This is terrible, just terrible. Of course, before removing hair from a mole, you need to consult a dermatologist. Regular injuries can lead to its degeneration.

For some reason, men easily endure the process of how a girl cuts her toenails, but the process of cutting her toenails causes him almost a gag reflex. It can only be worse if the girl forgot to throw out her nails and the guy found this neat pile of trimmed nails.

Even if you kissed a guy just five minutes ago, you should not drink from the throat of his bottle, from his cup or eat from his plate. For some reason, the guys cannot stand this, although they understand that if you cook for him, then you also try food, if you kiss in the same way. You can’t do this until the guy himself says something in style, yes, okay, drink, I don’t disdain, not strangers.

Tooth cavity

Oral hygiene in relation should be given a lot of attention. Of course, if you live with a guy together, the guy will definitely notice whether you brushed your teeth before bedtime, whether you brushed your teeth on your day off. Moreover, if he himself has already cleaned, and you are trying to kiss him, while ignoring a visit to the bathroom. But don’t be afraid if both of you just woke up and he wants to pull you to him and kiss you, even if he smells of something from you, he just won’t notice it.

After you have eaten in a cafe or restaurant, and you understand that at the end of the date he will kiss you for sure, but there is no way to brush your teeth. Use chewing gum and unobtrusively offer him, believe me, he often watches TV and knows about bacteria that multiply in the oral cavity.

Soul visit

A shower must be visited not only at your exit from home. You should also visit the shower after cleaning the apartment, and the things that you cleaned will need to be washed. You also need a shower after your visit to the toilet, because the guy read a lot of things in his men's magazines about how fecal bacteria get on the body and all that sort of thing. And if he plans to have sex with you then?

Also, do not forget that the shower should be visited before bedtime. Not because it’s better to sleep later, you hope for sex or are very dirty during the day. While you sleep, the body continues to work and many unnecessary elements are released through the skin. If you take a shower before bedtime, then your pores will open, and in the morning your body will have a more pleasant smell. Well, this is very nice and will help you fall asleep before going to bed.

Remember, you need to take a shower before sex. Not at the moment when the prelude has already begun, but when you realize that it is about to happen. Believe me, the guy will be more pleasant to kiss you and decide on oral caresses for your body. After sex, you don’t need to immediately rush into the shower, lie down a little in the arms of a partner, otherwise the guy will think that you dislike the discharge of his body, and he is subconsciously proud of them.

Menstruation

You can ask a guy with a particularly trusting relationship to buy you a pack of tampons or pads. But it is undesirable for him to see them after use. Also remember that blood decomposes completely after 4 hours and a very unpleasant odor appears. Find an opportunity to take everything out to the garbage chute before the deadline. Anyway, he immediately guesses why the apartment has such an unpleasant smell.

The toilet and everything connected with it

Remember that series of “Sex and the City”, where the heroine was afraid to go to the toilet “in the big way”, being in the same apartment with a guy. If you live together, then this will happen sooner or later. What can you advise, if you can’t do it when he doesn’t see, you can be saved at first, if you have a piece of toilet and shower, if you turn on the water during the process, then he might think that you were in the shower . But he will still guess over time if you do this all the time.

Try to never do this if he is eating, albeit in another room. The presence of a hood in the toilet will save you a lot. And if it is not, be sure to use an air freshener not only after the process, but also before. Suddenly, he wants to go to the toilet immediately after you.

You can also use special tools, such as "Toilet duckling", the smell that remains after their use, kills all other odors. Try to also use the used toilet paper, wrap it in another cleaner layer - then he definitely will not see what he might not like.

By the way, strangely enough, guys normally perceive everything that is connected with vomiting, probably, they often had to keep the girls' hair in the process, especially if they themselves gave her a drink. Everything that is connected with going to the toilet “in a little way”, usually doesn’t cause any tension for anyone, you can even do it on the street, or you can directly tell where you are going to go and not think that you are going to powder the nose.

Of course, we do not consider those situations when a guy is a sexual fan of such physiological waste products, then he will not have problems with them, on the contrary, you will need to get used to everything mentally.

Unpleasant sounds

Everyone remembers the shocking confession of Brad Pitt from the time of his life together with Angelina Jolie that “the main thing is to find the person with whom you can fart under the covers”, in the United States, this is generally normal. They can also burp in society. But we have a different mentality.

You should never do this with a guy, or if he can hear, even while in another room, if you need to do something like that, then do not be too lazy to go to the bathroom. By the way, the fear of many women that they can do it involuntarily during sex. Do not worry, especially since the guy thinks that you have already done this.

The fact is that a well-moistened vagina, especially in the “behind” position, is capable of making such squelching sounds that are easily mistaken for something else. When you become pregnant, you will do it involuntarily, but by then a normal man will treat you differently and forgive you everything.

Pets and baby

If you have pets, unfortunately, it is you who will have to clean all of their waste products. The same applies to the child, as if the guy did not love his baby, rarely anyone is willing to change his diaper. Also, do not put the child on a potty in a room or in the kitchen, especially if, apart from your boyfriend, there are other people nearby.

Spiridonova Nadezhda Viktorovna

Psychologist. Specialist from the site b17.ru

love has passed. and apparently there was no love, though. maybe just a temporary crisis, then wait a try

I had it too. True, they didn’t live together, met for a year, just came to a meeting and realized that I was sick of him, it was disgusting when he kissed, to be honest, she was even a little shocked by himself. Naturally broke up with him.

It was like that with me. She herself blamed herself for this, it seemed to me, whim. Then it turned out that during my business trip he managed to have fun in our bedroom with a common acquaintance.Apparently, my female intuition just worked.

It happens to me when I have not seen my husband for a long time. Not that disgust, just some kind of alienation appears. The first time we parted for 2 weeks (I was in a hospital in another city), returned home, saw him, and the first thought: "Oh, who is this?" Really, a strange man is perceived as a stranger. And then, when I went on business trips and lay in the hospital, it was like that. You have to get used to it again, it usually takes several hours.

it was like this with me too, we had not seen the guy for a week, and then everything, something jumped in my head, I became disgusted, I understood - I don't like it anymore. and everyone broke up and do not even regret

I had it, we met for 4 years. really disgusting kissing, began to annoy me, I left him. in my case, it most likely came from the accumulated grievances, quarrels. I stopped respecting him

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wow, as it turns out. So the truth is probably probably not love, that's why the more my husband starts to enrage me together like that, but his character is difficult), if I don’t see the day, I can’t miss it directly, and when I meet the long-awaited one, it’s the closest and dearest to me.

Alienation is not equal to disgust.
Nature is wiser than people, author. I think that sooner or later you will run away anyway. You are now afraid to lose the connecting threads, although these threads are essentially gone.

YOU HAD NO LOVE.
WAS DESIRE.
WILL BE WELL BETTER.

The body is smarter than the head. You always need to listen to the body. It does not want it - and do not force it (yourself). Remain for a couple of weeks. Tell me you need a pause. Maybe everything will return.

The body is smarter than the head. You always need to listen to the body. It does not want it - and do not force it (yourself). Remain for a couple of weeks. Tell me you need a pause. Maybe everything will return.

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It happens to me when I have not seen my husband for a long time. Not that disgust, just some kind of alienation appears. The first time we parted for 2 weeks (I was in a hospital in another city), returned home, saw him, and the first thought: "Oh, who is this?" Really, a strange man is perceived as a stranger. And then, when I went on business trips and lay in the hospital, it was like that. You have to get used to it again, it usually takes several hours.

and I wean! very quickly the guy becomes after separation, like a stranger. there is a guy whom she loved very much, but he left me, so he doesn’t mind meeting, but I don’t even want to see him! stranger, what should I talk to him about?

YOU HAD NO LOVE.
WAS DESIRE.
WILL BE WELL BETTER.

well well. and that means you have your own boyfriend there at your side and you don’t want to at least try to fall in love with him again. I have such a need for love that I even love a guy whom I essentially do not like (and who openly does not love me). but I have tenderness and mutual sexual attraction to him. and this is sometimes enough. although, I would certainly like to mutually love him. but only mutually.

Author, I have no disgust for you.
I just want a lynx. I really want to have a lynx. I don’t need anything without a lynx! I do not want to live without a lynx. (

It was like that with BM, he began to go on a shift, and when he arrived he got used to him for a couple of days. But then she didn’t love him.
I didn’t part with my current husband for a long time, only in the hospital I lay with the child a couple of times, but he came almost every day.
Here in August I’ll leave for 2 weeks, we'll see there))

In general, it is strange to wean so quickly from people. Well this is not six months have not seen

It was like that with me. She herself blamed herself for this, it seemed to me, whim. Then it turned out that during my business trip he managed to have fun in our bedroom with a common acquaintance. Apparently, my female intuition just worked.

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Oh Lord .. How much nonsense! Now I understand why there was so much pain in life — I loved, cherished, and reaped all the time the nonsense that is stated here: "the body is wiser, intuition, has already weaned for a week .." You are egocentric .. Not selfish, no .. Egoism is a conscious choice. .A egocentrics, like children .. Underdeveloped ability to empathize, empathy. There are a lot of interesting experiments with children, showing that they don’t know how to feel and understand what the other one feels .. Almost until adulthood .. That's the whole explanation of your swagger ,GIRLS..

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my relationship is in a collapse
6 months passed, everything was perfect, but then the cold began, and suddenly my boyfriend said that he doesn’t love me anymore. What should I do? This is the so-called stage of “disgust?”

Hello! I often feel disgust at the people around me. I recently quarreled with my best friend because I was just tired of her. She has nothing to do with it. It's just that it's all about me. People often bother me. I think that I can’t build a normal future. Just the person I love quickly bothers me. For no reason, I disgust him. What to do? There were no psychological injuries in childhood.

Hello! I often feel disgust at the people around me. I recently quarreled with my best friend because I was just tired of her. She has nothing to do with it. It's just that it's all about me. People often bother me. I think that I can’t build a normal future. Just the person I love quickly bothers me. For no reason, I disgust him. What to do? There were no psychological injuries in childhood.

I have been living with a guy for 20 years for 2 years, once every six months for a month we part for two because of trifles (on his initiative), he simply asks me to leave things. After some time, we see each other and converge, for two weeks already, when I measured it, I moved back with things, I’m disgusted when he kisses, hugs what should I do? During sex, I ask him to dim the light, I just close my eyes and lie like a log. Previously, this was not when they reconciled like a good woman did everything around the house so as not to swear back because of the little things, but right now I’m still eating and sleeping. When I do not allow him to work, I sit at home with him for 24 hours. I want to leave, but I'm afraid I’ll suddenly regret it, I suddenly didn’t stop loving, it just happens temporarily, because they never parted on my initiative. There is where to go and find work is not a problem. He is promising, I don’t want to lose this, and even two years’s attitude is nothing?

Linda, your situation is hopeless for your future. Throw the guy, go to work. If you are not married yet, he builds you for himself, and you adjust, then it will be worse. For what is it to endure? It is necessary to strive for happiness, and not for a tolerant situation. You are only 20, you reason as a woman over 60.

How can you give up so easily, so *****. to leave the guy, to break with him everything that is loved and for which you still endure him. There are many different Vedic lecturers such as Torsunov, Narushevich, Satya Das, etc. You can listen to their lectures for free on YouTube. They give their lectures for the sole purpose that we no longer live in this darkness of ignorance, but somehow already begin to work on ourselves and our problems, so that we stop ruining our lives and loved ones.
I went to this site because with my beloved, we have been together for 3.5 years, of which 10 months the relationship is formalized.
Everything was, and love and passion, including disgust. This time it became interesting to me that on the Internet they talk about it, the first page brought to this forum, and there is so much garbage.
Girls, before making any very important decision in your life, do not bother with your head, but really try to figure out why this happens to you and what lesson the universe brings to you through this situation. Learn to live happily.

THIS BECAUSE YOU HAVE BEEN ADOPTED WHAT IT IS FOR YOU. THERE IS WHEN THE LOVE ON THE PARTY WILL BE COMMANDED, THERE WILL THEN START TO JUMP WITH THE WORDS "HE IS MY HE WILL NOT GIVE ANYONE TO ANYONE."

it was like this with me too, we had not seen the guy for a week, and then everything, something jumped in my head, I became disgusted, I understood - I don't like it anymore. and everyone broke up and do not even regret

as they say - in a relationship of 2 sins - to break off a living relationship and hold the dead. Author, perhaps you have a purely psychological problem. I really loved one guy and forgave a lot, even a rare reptile. left at his initiative. returned in a year. there are so many excuses on his part for my shortcomings. and I returned to: a) work on myself and my mistakes, b) look at everything already from a flight altitude. Honestly, I don’t understand now that it kept me so much time next to him. A selfish fisted consumer living on the principle of give for give and generous for sugary noodles on the ears. irresponsible and unreliable. This will not change anything .. humpback as they say. if love is gone and a lot of annoying you in a partner do not look for blame in yourself. As a rule, both are guilty and to a greater extent obviously not a woman because we are inclined to create and hold rather than conquer new peaks like them)

They lived for 17 years, went away, ran after women, but was not even close with one. When leaving, he betrayed me in treason (which was nothing on my part). All the years when I lived a day I said a hundred times that I loved, and when I left I said that He feels disgust for me, He lives alone at work, and to this day I have been crying for two years. We are married. How can I be? 58.

I also had this. Ever since school, the guy liked the year it dried up, then a year later they started dating him, met the guy for half a year, loved him very much, (and he doesn’t hike me, he came only when it was boring) the truth was jealous, God forbid drinking, God forbid, see I immediately flies in with alcohol and raises his hands on me, Generally speaking, he didn’t consider me for anything, it was just like a toy, then two weeks passed and he immediately changed his attitude towards me with tenderness and affection for me, but I already stopped loving began to immediately turn away He is whole Uh, I don’t want him to hug, but I don’t want him, he says beautiful words to me how smart you are. I’m beautiful and tender. And I’m just averted from these words, probably because he had such an attitude that was numb to me because of this well, and accordingly, he said you do not love me, but I was just silent and didn’t even know how to answer it, and accordingly, after 3 weeks we parted, there was no point in just meeting because I had stopped loving him

The body is smarter than the head. You always need to listen to the body. It does not want it - and do not force it (yourself). Remain for a couple of weeks. Tell me you need a pause. Maybe everything will return.

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